Boy’s are still stupid

On of the things you have remember when your screwing around with a married woman (and by that I mean fucking) is that they’re not your girlfriend. Sex does not vest property rights and neither does it give you permission to use someone as your emotional tampon. I don’t mind being treated like a booty call, especially by someone whom I just have sex with on occasion. This is not a relationship, however, ignoring me for 6 weeks, except for 2 last minute, day of, invites, one of which was to be emotional support, is rude. Getting butthurt when I say I can’t do something with you is even worse. Especially when the whole point of them was for your benefit and you can’t even be bothered to be concerned about anyone else. I understand that people are busy. The ignoring me for 6 weeks doesn’t bother me, by itself. But combined with some things that were said and other behaviors, it makes me feel like I’m being treated like a video game, to be put on pause whenever he’s busy. I have a life, I got things to do. I do not wait around just to fuck someone once every other month.

Also I have a husband, deal with it. I don’t appreciate lovers getting butthurt when I talk about him, or trying to pretend he doesn’t exist. If you don’t like having sex with a married woman, don’t. Don’t assume, either, that just because we sleep with other people, our marriage is in trouble and you have a shot at replacing my husband. Not going to happen, get over it.