All you had to do was nothing!

My bully has decided to write his own post on bullying. I find interesting that he is accusing those he is angry at, of bullying. Not him, of course, he's too manly and strong for that, but he does define it.

1bul·ly
noun \ˈbu̇-lē, ˈbə-\
plural bullies
Definition of BULLY
1
archaic a : sweetheart b : a fine chap
2
a : a blustering browbeating person; especially : one habitually cruel to others who are weaker b : pimp
3
: a hired ruffian
Origin of BULLY
probably from Middle Dutch boele lover; akin to Middle Low German bōle lover, Middle High German buole
First Known Use: 1538

That is the definition he posted. He goes on to further define, himself, that bullying only happens to children, pre-teens, and teens and by the same. Implying that adults can not, in anyway, be the victim of or be a bully. I look at the definition: a blustering browbeating person: especially : one habitually cruel to others who are weaker. I don't see ages of the people involved in that definition. Now, whether or not women are weaker then my bully, he thinks they are. Anyone who refers to women as sluts, whores, bitches and refers to their genitalia as “sausage wallet” and does so, repeatedly, with the intent to cause emotional harm (i.e. he's not using it in a joking manner or between friends) is habitually cruel.

He says you can define an act of bullying by the end result. Well if the end result is a woman despising him, being intimidated by him, and feeling as if her only recourse is the law, then what does that say of your actions? Now if you're my bully, that says nothing about your actions because everything you do is right. (Yes there is sarcasm there) It just says the woman in question is delusional. He maintains that any perceived threat against me from him, is just that, my delusional perception. While maintaining, however, that he is quite capable of violence, just that I am not worth it. However, I am not worth ignoring either. All he had to do was nothing. NOT talk about, NOT mention me in his rantings, and NOT give me attention. He couldn't do that. I am, however, supposed to be reassured because he deems me not worthy of violence?

What disturbs me is he is focusing his ire on me, due to an incident that I have nothing to do with. He is mad at another woman, therefore must be mad at me also. What else is he going to get angry about, that he decides I'm a part of? If what gets his attention is him being mad at anything female, then he will never leave me alone. Whether or not I have anything to with what he's pissed about clearly doesn't matter. Since I don't know what does it, then how can I not piss him off. More importantly, if he's not a bully, why should I have to worry about it?